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control of life ? .
Thursday, December 17, 2009 || 10:18 PM
damn , been a long time since i've written a blog and well to my loyal readers , am sorry. but then again i have a reason, school certificate and well a bit of a break was required, but what i've seen in my last blog and up until this current one hasnt changed.
People still lack the heart to take control of their lives and me being one of these people, i realise that i too fail to have the ability to take control of mine, but i question myself and those people too , do we fail to take control because its out of our reach or do we fail to take control because we need some sort of realisation in our life ? .
i choose the latter and this is accompanied with me aswell, i realise that i refuse to take control; not only me but most of the people i know because deep down we want this feeling that were real, that we mean something and we generally get lost along the way, turning something that we can fix with ease into something thats blown completely out of our control and then we lose control, when we should have just done the sensible thing, now ask yourself why do you think YOUR situations have panned out the way they have when the simple option maybe have kept that friend around, that smile on your face or even the course of your life along the good path it was once on.
as always an example illustrates my point. i have a friend and he couldnt pick a good nickname, so we'll have to go with JOONG. Well he, like me has had alot of pain due to the opposite sex and this isnt our fault, its just always the friend zone and as a wise man once said '' when a girl decides that you're her friend, you're no longer a dating option. You become this complete non-sexual entity in her eyes, like her brother, or a lamp '', and in say about 7 out of 10 cases this is true, and unfortunately were in that limited category.
but what JOONG has that i dont, and he doesnt know this , is when i like a girl i can't open up and tell them i think they mind read and should know, were he takes risks and he gets hurt but thats what happens, and that means hes taking control of his life weras im not , and in all situations we all have this feeling, were afraid to get hurt or to be rejected, but you have to remember that every path broken, every path taken will lead to your ultimate path and taking risks will lead you to that, '' it is better regretting what youve done then regret to have done nothing at all''.
so next time, just take control and give it a go , because you never know, anything could happen , who knows you might actually get with a celebrity , you know joong ? .anyways i hope this helps to whoever reads, you all deserve something
signing off .
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